Cora I agree with you mostly, I'm also someone who does not want it in the game at all. But since it's here I have to use it or I'll be at a huge disadvantage.
The same is to be said about the players in your prov. If they don't get the tech, they will see very quickly that they get pre/retals against them, but can't do the same back.
All I want is for it to be on fair playing grounds for all. I like balance