FriendsInSpace The same thing also happened to me at the same time as you.
R8 bottom fed on my province mate, so I hit up. I was 12.5k and hit Dnookie 20.8k. I won a castle and got 8 hours of protection from CLI. This did help me to build a bit of an army. Considering I'm a gnome, building an army in 8 hours is impossible, but it did help a little.
9 hours later, R8 had their ally T18 pre for them. Zephirion was 23k hitting into me at 16k, that's 69% (nice) of his size. Then R8 Dnookie takes his retal against me, he's still bigger than me at this point sitting at 20k. I drop down to 1 castle, 21 land and am 7k. I have no retal against dnookie, but I do have one against Zephirion who is 23k, but he has protection.
I have no recourse and simply have to start from the bottom again, which I'm doing. This is because I couldn't start CLI when it came out because it was introduced while I was in the middle of irrigation. Which by the way, I would have done CLI long before that because of how powerful it is and how much worse you are as a kingdom without it.
So yes it's frustrating, and I get the struggles. And while I am open about why I think CLI doesn't work as intended and should be either removed or changed, those are simply my thoughts and criticisms that I try to show with concrete examples, logic and reason; not complaints for the sake of it. Since it's in the game I'm using it and testing it. I would love to be wrong and say wow this works really well, but I'm just not seeing it. At least not yet