Xliest
Let's take this morning (or last night for you)'s events and recall them.
4 kd's less than 1/2 my size hit and tried to break me, and failed. One was larger, sure, but he also failed. Then a final kd less than 1/2 my size hit me and broke me. One of these people was you, so you have a very good idea what I'm talking about.
Now if the penalty is applied to retals, I cannot take all my retals since all the KD's are much smaller. Even if I now take only one retal, I will lose more troops and won't get much land with the castle.
So I have no recourse. Bottomfeeding penalty is fine, if you're the aggressor. Don't penalize people dealing with 5 hits who had to retrain their armies anyway. Retraining armies, filling empty land, all of this is so difficult in this version because of 40% destruction of gained buildings and peasants eating food which means you must be at double optimum pop for food all the time (more so when army is out) unless you're undead.
But like I said, deaf ears. I know nothing I say will be taken into consideration so I guess the rest should enjoy the game.